Midlife Wisdom Circle
A Sacred Circle for Women Awakening to What’s Next
Reclaim Your Joy, Clarity and Power in Your 40s & 50s
Next circle begins February 5, 2026
You’re in your 40s or 50s, and something’s stirring. Maybe you’ve built the life — the career, the family, the outer success — but inside, you feel... off. Unsettled. You’re asking questions you never used to ask:
What do I really want now?
Is this it?
Who am I becoming?
You’ve checked the boxes. Played the roles. Worn the masks. But now, a deeper voice is calling. It wants truth. Spaciousness. Joy. It wants you back.
This isn’t a crisis. It’s a sacred initiation.
Welcome to the Midlife Wisdom Circle — a 3-month journey of reclamation, sisterhood, and soul clarity.
This intimate, small-group experience blends accessible teachings, practices for self-awareness, and deep community connection to help you reconnect to your inner wisdom and unlock your unique Midlife Navigation System.
What women come here seeking:
Connecting with what lights them up
Space to rediscover what they want at midlife
Clarity on what’s next
Aligning their lives with what matters now
More ease and joy
Deep, meaningful connection with others
Sound familiar?
If you feel confused, stuck, or quietly yearning for something more — this is your invitation.
“People may call what happens at midlife “a crisis,” but it’s not. It’s an unraveling — a time when you are challenged by the universe to let go of who you think you are supposed to be and to embrace who you are.”
— Brene Brown
Welcome to the Midlife Portal
Instead of a crisis, you’ve reached a doorway—an invitation to walk through a portal and reimagine yourself, crafting a future that is deeply authentic and satisfying.
It’s the push your psyche needs to pivot when old sources of meaning and identity no longer sustain you. It’s the urge to channel new (or long-buried) passions and ideas, and bring them out into the world.
Midlife brings the opportunity to reprioritize, and then wholeheartedly pursue what sparks your interest, joy, and aliveness.
Over the 3-month journey you will:
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Understand where you are on the Midlife Transition Map, a tool rooted in modern research and ancient wisdom.
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Identify the roles and personality patterns that no longer serve you using the power of the Enneagram.
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Cultivate your Inner Compass—the internal guidance system to help you discern what’s true, what’s needed and what’s next.
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Experiment with practices to reconnect to your deep wisdom and stay grounded during change. Your wisdom is there to be remembered.
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Create your unique Midlife Navigation System so you know what to do when you don’t know what to do next.
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Connect to a community of like-minded women who can witness and support who you are becoming.
Testimonials
“The combination of research and knowledge sharing, together with deep body and heart-led inquiry, was the perfect combination for both my body and brain. I'm leaving with a map for where I want ME to be when I come through the other side, and the added bonus of a group of women I know I can lean on when I need a reminder or a gust in my sails.”
Lindsay
“When I turned 40, I felt the disappointment of not achieving some life goals, and exhaustion from the success I had achieved. I actually asked myself, “What is the purpose of my life now? What is my Plan B?” If only I had had this circle back then! Instead of trying to figure it all out alone, I would have so appreciated the wisdom, insight, camaraderie, and creative practices this program offered.”
Kim
“The Midlife Wisdom Circle has been exactly what I needed during a time in my life when I have been struggling with carrying too much and needing to make space to find myself again. Since participating, I've been able to make big decisions and shift my time and energy towards my own needs and devotions which has helped bring me peace and strengthen my relationships with those I love.”
Hillary
“I am walking through the world differently and more intentionally now. I was definitely lost when I started this eight weeks, and now I'm on a positive path.”
Cam
“It’s been such a gift to have the time to land on something so simple and powerful as my midlife north star and now it’s all happening with such energy and flow.”
Adriana
“I approached the Enneagram with skepticism, but it brought unbelievable awareness and truths that gave me a framework and permission to think and act differently. It was hugely revelatory.”
Wendy
“I’ve regained the light and radiance of my younger self.”
Lindsey
What’s included in the Midlife Wisdom Circle Experience:
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ONLINE ENNEAGRAM ASSESSMENT & REPORT
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9 LIVE SESSIONS WITH TONIA AND NEVADA
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2 LIVE Q&A SESSIONS
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CURATED TOOLS & PRACTICES
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PRIVATE DISCUSSION GROUP
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SESSION RECORDINGS & GUIDED VISUALIZATIONS
This group is a good fit for you if you:
Identify as a woman in your 40s or 50s
Are in the midst of a soul-level shift
Feel like your old roles or goals no longer fit
Want to reorient to what truly matters now
Crave connection with like-minded women
Are curious about the Enneagram, embodiment, and sacred self-inquiry
Are ready to listen to your body, your heart, your inner compass
Unlock patterns and find freedom at midlife with the Enneagram
One of the way finders on our journey is the Enneagram—a powerful tool for self-discovery and growth. The Enneagram offers powerful insights on the habitual patterns and challenges that are highlighted for you at midlife, while also offering a powerful map for change.
Before the group begins, you’ll be invited to take an online typing assessment and will receive a 20-page report on your type to begin your exploration.
There is no linear, 5-step process to navigate the midlife transition (don’t we wish there were!). Your journey will be as unique as you are. But there are maps, tools and practices - informed by modern research and ancient wisdom - that can help you create a navigation system to move through the passage with greater courage and confidence.
Session Schedule
Join us for the next cohort in February 2026
Please review the schedule and ensure that you can attend at least 7 of the 9 live sessions before applying.
Call One: Orienting to the Midlife Journey
February 5, 6:00-8:00pm PT
Call Two: Mapping Your Inner Terrain with the Enneagram
February 12, 6:00-7:30pm PT
Call Three: Letting Go of What’s No Longer Needed
February 19, 6:00-7:30pm PT
Call Four: Navigating the Unknown
March 5, 6:00-7:30pm PT
Call Five: Meeting the Inner Critic
March 12, 6:00-7:30pm PT
Call Six: Tuning Into Your Body’s Wisdom
March 19, 6:00-7:30pm PT
Call Seven: Cultivating Your Inner Compass
March 26, 6:00-7:30pm PT
Call Eight: Orienting to Who You Are Becoming
April 9, 6:00-7:30pm PT
Call Nine: Creating Your Midlife Navigation System
April 16, 6:00-8:00pm PT
Join Nevada and Tonia in the Midlife Wisdom Circle
Your registration includes:
9 LIVE guided sessions
2 LIVE Q&A sessions
Online Enneagram assessment (IEQ9)
20+ page Enneagram report
A copy of Waking Up With the Enneagram by B. Chestnut and Uranio Paes
Private communication platform (yes, we meme)
Recordings of all sessions
Curated tools, readings and rituals
Ongoing support from a wise, funny, real community
Your investment:
$859 for the full experience
Or upgrade to include 2 private 60-minute coaching sessions with Nevada or Tonia for $1,339
This circle is intimate, and space is limited to 12 participants.
Click the Join the circle button to apply. We’ll review and send next steps with love.
Meet Your Guides: Nevada and Tonia
Nevada Lane
As a certified coach and the founder of Lane Change Consulting, Nevada helps humans connect with their authentic selves while also accessing the tools they need to translate insight into action.
Having grown up at the San Francisco Zen Center and built a successful international career in team development and graphic facilitation, her approach is grounded in bridging both being and doing, reflection and momentum.
Nevada is known for her leadership in visual strategy, expert facilitation, and individual and team coaching, with a particular interest in coaching creative leaders throughout midlife transitions. Her own midlife transition was a tumultuous 3 years of searching for answers to her own deep sense of frustration and resentment. The gifts of that time have been a revitalization of her 25-year-marriage (which she calls Marriage 2.0), a deep connection to her own intuition and spirituality, a peaceful relationship with her body and food, and a community of soul sisters who inspire her daily.
As a dedicated student and practitioner of the Enneagram (she’s a type 3), mother of two fabulous young adults (ages 20 and 18), and a proud woman business owner, Nevada’s mission is to leave people feeling more alive, more connected, and more prepared to make a purposeful difference in the world.
Tonia Erin
Tonia is a Soul Path Coach and Ceremonialist who guides individuals through profound life transitions. After a decade at Adobe and co-founding a tech startup, she realized her true calling lay beyond corporate life. Now, she focuses on creating transformative experiences rooted in ceremonial practices and the sacred use of earth medicines as allies for healing and growth.
In partnership with her life companion, Tonia is cultivating a safe, sacred space where individuals can unwind lifelong conditioning and reconnect with their authentic selves. Her own midlife transition taught her the power of embracing uncertainty and leaning into the wisdom of the body, and she now shares this wisdom to help others navigate change with courage and purpose.
As a co-facilitator of the Midlife Wisdom Circle, Tonia brings her rich experience and compassionate presence to help women unlock their inner wisdom, navigate transitions, and reimagine their lives in alignment with their true essence.
FAQs
You might be curious about these.
How does the application process work?
The application includes a few brief questions about your intentions for joining the program and your familiarity with the Enneagram. If your application is accepted, we will reach out with an invoice for payment.
How many spots are there?
The group is limited to 12 people.
Will the sessions be recorded?
Yes. Sessions will be recorded and shared if you are unable to attend a live session.
Will there be homework?
We will offer home “play” activities after each session that are designed to support your self-reflection and insight. Completing the home play is recommended but not required for your participation.
How much do I need to know about the Enneagram?
You do not need to understand the Enneagram deeply as a model, but being clear on your Enneagram type is required to join the program. If you are not sure of your type or would like to have it confirmed, let us know and we will send you an online assessment (included in the program fee) and receive a 20+ page report about the Enneagram and your type and sub-type in detail.
Perimenopause is definitely related to midlife transitions, right? Will we talk about that at all?
We understand the dramatic impact perimenopause can have on our sense of identity, our bodies and our wellbeing. We are coaches, so we’ll never offer health guidance, but we believe menopause is an initiation and deeply intertwined with the midlife transition. While we don’t focus our content on menopause, we welcome conversations around the meaning and impact of this important change in your life.
What is the cancellation policy?
Refunds will be issued up to 7 days prior to the beginning of the program. No refunds will be issued after that.